How do I plan a memorial service at the church?
You may be assured that our staff is here to help you throughout
this difficult time. There are many decisions to be made...and
we will help. The first step is to contact a local funeral home
such as Deercreek Funeral Service. Next, make an appointment
to meet with a member of our pastoral staff, who will walk you
through the process of planning a service that will celebrate
the life of your loved one.
Who do I contact?
You may contact the church office from 9 AM to 4 PM, Monday
through Friday, at (510) 537-4690 or by e-mail (
inquiries@3crosses.org). Please share with us the date and time you
request for a service. A Pastor will contact you shortly thereafter.
What makes up the program of a typical memorial service
at Neighborhood Church?
The program may vary, depending on the family's wishes, with
favorite hymns, songs or scripture incorporated into the service,
but a typical memorial service includes the following elements:
- Welcome and prayer
- Scripture reading
- Song
- Eulogy and remembering, open mic
- Song
- Message of Hope
- Prayer
- Closing remarks, dismissal
What is the length of a memorial service?
Usually a service will run from 40 to 90 minutes, depending on
the length of the eulogy and open mic time of remembering.
Can you recommend any songs?
Some songs of comfort and hope include Amazing Grace, How
Great Thou Art, In the Garden, and His Eye is on the Sparrow.
What Scriptures should be used?
Favorites include Psalm 23, Psalm 121:1-2, 2 Corinthians 1:3-4.
Are programs provided?
Programs detailing the order of the service are usually provided
by the funeral home. A family member may choose to design
and provide a more personalized program.
Can we put up a photo or memorabilia display?
The family may provide memorabilia or a photo board to display
before and during the service. The church will provide an easel
or small table, upon request.
What is the charge for a memorial service?
A single donation for the use of the facility and staff services
is appropriate. Donations may be given to the church office or
the pastoral officiant.
What are my options for a reception?
Most commonly, a reception will be held in the family home
following the service. Close friends are often asked to coordinate
refreshments such as sandwiches, cake and coffee. In some cases,
it is possible to hold the reception at the church facility;
availability and associated fees must be coordinated through
the church office and pastor and verified by the facility management.
Does Neighborhood Church offer any support groups?
We offer support and care for you through our
GriefShare
program.
GriefShare will give you hope and encouragement for the future.
